Then I'll tell you what I know about Jiji, at least.
He's smart, and he knows when people are keeping secrets. He knew I was messed up about one and I said a couple times that I didn't want to tell him yet, and he wasn't a dick about it but it was like he couldn't help trying to find it out anyway.
So I think for him at least, there's something to the idea of being direct with him, even if it's something he's not going to like to hear. I think he's that kind of person, who'd at least respect that someone was up-front about it, even if he didn't like what he was hearing.
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He's smart, and he knows when people are keeping secrets. He knew I was messed up about one and I said a couple times that I didn't want to tell him yet, and he wasn't a dick about it but it was like he couldn't help trying to find it out anyway.
So I think for him at least, there's something to the idea of being direct with him, even if it's something he's not going to like to hear. I think he's that kind of person, who'd at least respect that someone was up-front about it, even if he didn't like what he was hearing.